Wives/Mothers Seeking Ilm Shaykh Falah Isma’eel (hafidhahullah) in Slough 2010
Question: “Some sisters dont get time to seek ilm of Islam after they have kids. So what can their husbands do to aid them in seeking ilm?”
Answer: “You should make it easy for your wife to study, help with the children and housework. Make it easy by way of computer, through internet she can seek ilm. You can read with her 40 ahadith of Imaam Nawawee etc. Its a must that you have lessons for your family inside the home, not just outside. Such as the seerah of the prophet (sallAllahu alayhi wasallam). This will benefit you because she will teach your children. Allah said- Oh you who believe! Save yourselves and your families from a fire whose fuel is men and stones.. And the prophet (sallAllahu alayhi wasallam) said- I advice you to be good to your women. The prophet (sallAllahu alayhi wasallam) would help in the household. Some husbands (or wives) enter their houses like a lion and command their wives to bring this, bring that! The household wont be cultivated like this, especially if its salafiyyah. FEAR ALLAH in regards to the women.”
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