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1. Honouring Parents

The Words of Allah Almighty: "We have instructed man to honour his parents." (29:8)

Hadith 1

1. Abu 'Amr ash-Shaybani  radiyallahu anhu  said, "The owner of this house (and he pointed at the house of 'Abdullah ibn Mas'ud) said, "I asked the Prophet,  Sallalahu aleihi wa , which action Allah loves best.

He  Sallalahu aleihi wa  replied, 'Prayer at its proper time.'

'Then what?' I asked.

He  Sallalahu aleihi wa  said, 'Then kindness to parents."

I asked, 'Then what?' He  Sallalahu aleihi wa  replied, 'Then jihad in the Way of Allah.'"

He  Sallalahu aleihi wa  added, "He told me about these things. If I had asked him to tell me more, he would have told me more."



Hadith 2

'Abdullah ibn 'Umar  (Radhi Allahu Anhuma)  said, "The pleasure of the Lord lies in the pleasure of the parent. The anger of the Lord lies in the anger of the parent."




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2. Dutifulness to One's Mother



Hadith 3


Bahz ibn Hakim's grandfather  radiyallahu anhu  said, "I asked, 'Messenger of Allah, to whom should I be dutiful?'

'Your mother,' he  Sallalahu aleihi wa  replied.

I asked, 'Then whom?'

'Your mother,' he replied  Sallalahu aleihi wa .

I asked, 'Then whom?'

'Your mother,' he replied  Sallalahu aleihi wa .

I asked, 'Then whom?' 'Your mother,' he replied  Sallalahu aleihi wa .

I asked, 'Then to whom should I be dutiful?'

'Your father,' he replied  Sallalahu aleihi wa , 'and then the next closest relative and then the next.'"



Hadith 4

'Ata' ibn Yasar said that a man came to Ibn 'Abbas radiyallahu anhu : and said, "I asked a woman to marry me and she refused to marry me. Another man asked her and she agreed to marry him. I became jealous and killed her. Is there any way for me to repent?"

He  radiyallahu anhu  asked, "Is your mother alive?" "No," he replied.

He  radiyallahu anhu   said, "repent to Allah Almighty and try to draw near Him as much as you can."

'Ata' said, "I went to Ibn 'Abbas  radiyallahu anhu  and asked him, 'Why did you ask him whether his mother was alive?'

He  radiyallahu anhu  replied, 'I do not know of any action better for bringing a person near to Allah than dutifulness to his mother.'"




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3. Dutifulness to One's Father


Hadith 5

Abu Hurayra  radiyallahu anhu  said, "The Prophet  Sallalahu aleihi wa  was asked, 'Messenger of Allah, to whom should I be dutiful?'

'Your mother,' he  Sallalahu aleihi wa  replied.

He  Sallalahu aleihi wa was asked, 'Then whom?'

'Your mother,' he Sallalahu aleihi wa  replied.

He Sallalahu aleihi wa  was asked,  'Then whom?'

'Your mother,' he Sallalahu aleihi wa  replied.

He  Sallalahu aleihi wa was asked, 'Then whom?'

'Your mother,' he Sallalahu aleihi wa  replied.

He  Sallalahu aleihi wa was asked, 'Then whom?'

He Sallalahu aleihi wa  replied, 'Your father.'"


Hadith 6

Abu Hurayra  radiyallahu anhu reported: "A man came to the Prophet of Allah,  Sallalahu aleihi wa , and asked, 'What do you command me to do?'

He  Sallalahu aleihi wa replied, 'Be dutiful towards your mother.'

Then he  Sallalahu aleihi wa asked him the same question again and he  Sallalahu aleihi wa replied, 'Be dutiful towards your mother.'

He repeated it yet again and the Prophet  Sallalahu aleihi wa replied, 'Be dutiful towards your mother.'

He repeated the question a fourth time and the reply was, 'Be dutiful towards your mother.'

Then he put the question a fifth time and the Prophet Sallalahu aleihi wa  said, 'Be dutiful towards your father.'"



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4. Dutifulness to Parents, even if they are unjust


Hadith 7

Ibn 'Abbas (Radhi Allahu Anhuma) said, "If any Muslim obeys Allah regarding his parents, Allah will open two gates of the Garden for him. If there is only one parent, then one gate will be opened. If one of them is angry, then Allah will not be pleased with him until that parent is pleased with him." He was asked, "Even if they wrong him?" "Even if they wrong him" he replied.



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5. Gentle words to Parents


Hadith 8

Taysala ibn Mayyas  radiyallahu anhu said, "I was with the Najadites [Kharijites] when I committed wrong actions which I supposed were major wrong actions. I mentioned that to Ibn 'Umar (Radhi Alllahu Anhumma). He inquired, 'What are they?" I replied, 'Such-and-such.'

He stated, 'These are not major wrong actions. There are nine major wrong actions. They are: associating others with Allah, killing someone, desertion from the army when it is advancing, slandering a chaste woman, usury, consuming an orphan's property, heresy in the mosque, scoffing, and causing one's parents to weep through disobedience.'

Ibn 'Umar (Radhi Alllahu Anhumma) then said to me, 'Do you wish to separate yourself from the Fire? Do you want to enter the Paradise?' 'By Allah, yes!' I replied. He asked, 'Are your parents still alive?' I replied, 'My mother is.' He (Radhi Alllahu Anhumma) said, 'By Allah, if you speak gently to her and feed her, then you will enter the Garden as long as you avoid the major wrong actions.'"

Hadith 9

Hisham ibn 'Urwa related this ayat from his father, "Take them under your wing, out of mercy, with due humility." (17:24)



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6. Repaying Parents


Hadith 10

Abu Hurayra  radiyallahu anhu  reported that the Prophet,  Sallalahu aleihi wa  said,

"A child cannot repay his father unless he finds him as a slave and the buys him and sets him free."



Hadith 11

Sa'id ibn Abi Burda said, "I heard my father say that Ibn 'Umar  radiyallahu anhu  saw a Yamani man going around the House while carrying his mother on his back, saying, 'I am your humble camel. If her mount is frightened, I am not frightened.' Then he asked, 'Ibn 'Umar? Do you think that I have repaid her?' He  radiyallahu anhu  replied, 'No, not even for a single groan.'

"Ibn 'Umar did tawaf and came to the Maqam and prayed two rak'ats. He said, 'Ibn Abi Musa, every two rak'ats make up for everything that has happened between them.'"



Hadith 12


Marwan used to make Abu Hurayra  radiyallahu anhu  his agent and he used to be located in Dhu'l-Hulayfa. His mother was in one house and he was in another. When he wanted to go out, he would stop at her door and say, "Peace be upon you, mother, and the mercy of Allah and His blessing." She would reply, "And peace be upon you, my son, and the mercy of Allah and His blessing." Then he said, "May Allah have mercy on you as you raised me when I was a child." She answered, "May Allah have mercy on you as you were dutiful to me when I was old." Whenever he wanted to go inside, he would do something similar.



Hadith 13

'Abdullah ibn 'Amr  radiyallahu anhu  said, "A man came to the Prophet,  Sallalahu aleihi wa  and made a pledge to him that he would do Hijra. He left his parents who were in tears. The Prophet  Sallalahu aleihi wa said, 'Go back to them and make them laugh as you made them weep.'



Hadith 14

Abu Hazim reported that Abu Murra, the mawla of Umm Hani' bint Abi Talib had told him that he rode with Abu Hurayra  radiyallahu anhu  to his land in al-'Aqiq. When he entered his land, he shouted out in his loudest voice, "Peace be upon you, mother, and the mercy of Allah and His blessing!" She replied, "And peace be upon you and the mercy of Allah and His blessing." He said, "May Allah have mercy on you as you raised me when I was a child." She replied, "My son, may Allah repay you well and be pleased with you as you were dutiful towards me when I was old."




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7. Disobedience to Parents


Hadith 15

Abu Bakra radiyallahu anhu  reported that the Messenger of Allah, Sallalahu aleihi wa  said,

"Shall I tell you which is the worst of the major wrong actions?"

"Yes, Messenger of Allah," they replied. He   Sallalahu aleihi wa said,

"Associating something else with Allah and disobeying parents."

He had been reclining, but then he  Sallalahu aleihi wa  said up and said,

"And false witness."

Abu Bakra said, "He continued to repeat it until I said, 'Is he never going to stop?'"



Hadith 16

Warrad, the scribe of al-Mughira ibn Shu'ba, said, "Mu'awiya wrote to al-Mughira, saying, 'Write down for me what you heard the Messenger of Allah,  Sallalahu aleihi wa  say.'"

Warrad said, "He dictated to me and I wrote out, 'I heard him forbid asking too many questions, wasting money and chit-chat.'"




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8. "Allah curses whoever curses his parents"


Hadith 17


Abu't-Tufayl said, "'Ali  radiyallahu anhu was asked, 'Did the Prophet,  Sallalahu aleihi wa give you something special which he did not give to anyone else?'

He replied, 'The Messenger of Allah,  Sallalahu aleihi wa  did not give me anything special which he did not give to everyone else except for what I have in my sword scabbard.' He brought out a piece of paper.

Written on that paper was: 'Allah curses anyone who sacrifices an animal to something other than Allah. Allah curses anyone who steals a milestone. Allah curses anyone who curses his parents. Allah curses anyone who gives shelter to an innovator.'"



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9. Being Dutiful to Parents as long as that does not entail disobedience to Allah



Hadith 18

Abu'd-Darda'   radiyallahu anhu said, "The Messenger of Allah,  Sallalahu aleihi wa recommended nine things to me:

'Do not associate anything with Allah, even if you are cut to pieces or burned.
Do not abandon a prescribed prayer deliberately. Anyone who abandons it will forfeit Allah's protection.
Do not drink wine - it is the key to every evil.
Obey your parents. If they command you to abandon your worldly possessions, then leave them for them.
Do not contend with those in power, even if you think that you are in the right.
Do not run away from the army when it is advances, even if you are killed while your companions run away.
Spend on your wife out of your means.
Do not raise a stick against your wife.
Cause your family to fear Allah, the Almighty and Exalted.'"




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Hadith 19

'Abdullah ibn 'Amr said, "A man came to the Prophet,  Sallalahu aleihi wa and said, 'I have come to make you a pledge that will do hijra although I have left my parents in tears."

The Prophet  Sallalahu aleihi wa  said, 'Go back to them and make them laugh as you made them cry.'"



Hadith 20

'Abdullah ibn 'Amr said, "A man came to the Prophet,  Sallalahu aleihi wa wanting to do jihad.

The Prophet  Sallalahu aleihi wa  asked, 'Are your parents alive?'

'Yes,' he replied.

He  Sallalahu aleihi wa said, 'Then exert yourself on their behalf.'"



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10. The One who Fails his Parents will not enter the Garden

Hadith 21

Abu Hurayra reported that the Prophet, Sallalahu aleihi wa , said, "Disgrace! Disgrace! Disgrace!"

They said, "Messenger of Allah, who?"

He  Sallalahu aleihi wa  said, "The one who fails his parents or one of them when they are old will enter the Fire."





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11. Allah prolongs the life of someone who is dutiful towards his parents


Hadith 22


Mu'adh said, "Bliss belongs to someone who is dutiful towards his parents. Allah Almighty will prolong his life."



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12. One does not ask forgiveness for his father if he is an idolater


Hadith 23

Ibn 'Abbas (Radhi Allahu Anhuma) mentioned the words of the Almighty,

"When one or both of them reach old age with you, do not say 'Ugh!' to them out of irritation and do not be harsh with them but speak to them with gentleness and generosity. Take them under your wing, out of mercy, with due humility and say: 'Lord, show mercy to them as they did in looking after me when I was small." (17:23-24)

He (Radhi Allahu Anhuma) said,

"This was abrogated in Surat at-Tawba: 'It is not right for the Prophet and those who have iman to ask forgiveness for the mushrikun even if they are close relatives after it has become clear to them that they are the Companions of the Blazing Fire.' (9:113)"



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13. Dutifulness towards a parent who is an idolater


Hadith 24

Sa'id ibn Abi Waqqas  radiyallahu anhu said: "Four ayats were revealed about me.

The first was when my mother swore she would neither eat nor drink until I left Muhammad, Sallalahu aleihi wa  Allah Almighty revealed, 'But if they try to make you associate something with Me about which you have no knowledge, do not obey them. Keep company with them correctly and courteously
in this world' (31:15)

The second was when I took a sword that I admired and said, 'Messenger of Allah, give me this!' Then the ayat was revealed: 'They will ask you about booty.' (8:1)

The third was when I was ill and the Messenger of Allah,  Sallalahu aleihi wa , came to me and I said, 'Messenger of Allah, I want to divide my property. Can I will away a half?'

He  Sallalahu aleihi wa  said, 'No.' 'A third?' I asked. He was silent and so after that it was allowed to will away a third.

The fourth was when I had been drinking wine with some of the Ansar. One of them hit my nose with the jawbone of a camel. I went to the Prophet,  Sallalahu aleihi wa , and Allah Almighty  revealed the prohibition of wine."






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Hadith 25

Asma' bint Abi Bakr  radiyallah anha  said, "In the time of the Prophet,  Sallalahu aleihi wa my mother came to me hoping (I would be dutiful). I asked the Prophet, Sallalahu aleihi wa , 'Do I have to treat her well?'

'Yes,' he  Sallalahu aleihi wa  replied."

Ibn 'Uyayna said, "Then Allah revealed about her, 'Allah does not forbid you from being good to those who have not fought you in the deen.' (60:8)"



Hadith 26

Ibn 'Umar (Radhi Allahu Anhuma) said, "'Umar saw a silk robe for sale. He Sallalahu aleihi wa  said, 'Messenger of Allah, would you buy this robe and wear it on Jumu'ah and when delegations visit you?'

He  Sallalahu aleihi wa replied, 'Only a person who has no portion in the Next World could wear this.'

Then the Messenger of Allah,  Sallalahu aleihi wa was given some robes made of the same material. He sent one of the robes to 'Umar  radiyallahu anhu

'Umar  radiyallah anha  exclaimed, 'How can I wear it when you said what you said about it?'

The Prophet  Sallalahu aleihi wa  replied, 'I did not give it to you so that you could wear it. You can sell it or give it to someone.'

'Umar sent it to a brother of his in Makkah who had not yet become Muslim."




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14. A person should not revile his parents


Hadith 27

'Abdullah ibn 'Amr  radiyallahu anhu  said that the Prophet,  Sallalahu aleihi wa , said,

"Reviling one's parents is one of the great wrong actions."

They asked, "How could he revile them?"

He  Sallalahu aleihi wa said, "He reviles a man who then in turn reviles his mother and father."



Hadith 28

'Abdullah ibn 'Amr  radiyallahu anhu said, "A man's reviling his father is one of the major wrong actions in the sight  of Allah Almighty."



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15. The punishment for disobeying parents


Hadith 29

Abu Bakra reported that the Prophet,  Sallalahu aleihi wa said,

"There is no wrong action more likely to bring punishment in this world in addition to what is stored up in the Next World than oppression and severing ties of kinship."



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Hadith 30

'Imran ibn Husayn said, "The Messenger of Allah,  Sallalahu aleihi wa  said,

'What do you say about fornication, drinking wine and theft?'

'Allah and His Messenger know best,' we replied.

He  Sallalahu aleihi wa  stated,

'They are acts of outrage and there is punishment for them, but shall I tell you which is the greatest of the great wrong actions? Associating with Allah Almighty and disobeying parents.' He had been reclining, but then he sat up and said, 'and lying.'"



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16. Making Parents weep


Hadith 31

Ibn 'Umar (Radhi Allahu Anhuma) said, "Making parents weep is part of disobedience and one of the major wrong actions."



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17. The Supplication of Parents


Hadith 32

Abu Hurayra  radiyallahu anhu reported that the Prophet, Sallalahu aleihi wa , said, "Three supplications are answered without a doubt: the supplication of someone who is oppressed, the supplication of someone on a journey, and the supplication of parents for their children."



Hadith 33

Abu Hurayrah radiyallahu anhu reported that he heard the Messenger of Allah,  Sallalahu aleihi wa , say,

"No human child has ever spoken in the cradle except for 'Isa ibn Maryam,  aleyhi salam  and the companion of Jurayj."

Abu Hurayrah  radiyallahu anhu  asked, "Prophet of Allah, who was the companion of Jurayj?"

The Prophet  replied, "Jurayj was a monk who lived in a hermitage. There was a cowherd who used to come to the foot of his hermitage and a woman from the village used to come to the cowherd.

"One day his mother came while he was praying and called out, 'Jurayj!' He asked himself, 'My mother or my prayer?' He concluded that he should prefer the prayer. She shouted to him a second time and he again asked himself, 'My mother or my prayer?' He thought that he should prefer the
prayer. She shouted a third time and yet again he asked himself, 'My mother or my prayer?' He again concluded that he should prefer the prayer.

When he did not answer her, she said, 'Jurayj, may Allah not let you die until you have looked at the faces of the beautiful women.' Then she left.

"Then the village woman was brought before the king after she had given birth to a child. He asked,
'Whose is it?'
'Jurayj's,' she replied.

He asked, 'The man in the hermitage?'

'Yes,' she answered.

He ordered, 'Destroy his hermitage and bring him to me.' They hacked at his hermitage with axes until it collapsed. They bound his hand to his neck with a rope and took him along to the king. When he passed by the beautiful women, he saw them and smiled. They were looking at him along with the people.

"The king asked, 'Do you know what this woman claims?' 'What does she claim?' he asked.

He replied, 'She claims that you are the father of her child.'

He asked her, 'Where is the child?' They replied, 'It is in her room.'

He went to the child and said, 'Who is your father?'

'The cowherd,' he replied.

The king said, 'Shall we build your hermitage out of gold?'

'No,' he replied.

He asked, 'Of silver?'

'No,' he replied.

The king asked, 'What shall we build it with?'

He said, 'Put it back the way you found it.'

Then the king asked, 'What made you smile.'

'Something I recognized,' he replied, 'The supplication of my mother overtook me.' Then he told him about it."




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18. Offering Islam to a Christian mother


Hadith 34

Abu Hurayra  : radiyallahu anhu :  said, "Neither Jew nor Christian has heard me and then not loved me. I wanted my mother to become Muslim, but she refused. I told her about it and she still refused. I went to the Prophet, Sallalahu aleihi wa , and said, 'Pray to Allah for me.' He did so and I went to her. She was inside the door of the house and said, 'Abu Hurayra, I have become Muslim.' I told the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, and I asked, 'Make supplication to Allah for me and my mother.' He  Sallalahu aleihi wa  said,

'O Allah, make people love Abu Hurayra and his mother.'"




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19. Dutifulness towards Parents after their Death




Hadith 35

Abu Usayd    radiyallahu anhu   said, "We were with the Messenger of Allah,  Sallalahu aleihi wa when a man asked, 'Messenger of Allah, is there any act of dutifulness which I can do for my parents after their death?' He  Sallalahu aleihi wa  replied,

'Yes. There are four things: Supplication for them, asking forgiveness for them, fulfilling their pledges, and being generous to friends of theirs. You only have ties of kinship through your parents."



Hadith 36

Abu Hurayra radiyallahu anhu  said, "The dead person can be raised a degree after his death. He said, 'My Lord, how is this?' He was told, 'Your child can ask for forgiveness for you.'"




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Hadith 37

Ibn Sirin said, "We were with Abu Hurayra  radiyallahu anhu  one night and he said, 'O Allah, forgive Abu Hurayra and his mother and whoever asks for forgiveness for both of them.'" Muhammad said, "We used to ask for forgiveness for them so that we would be included in Abu Hurayra's supplication."


Hadith 38

Abu Hurayra   radiyallahu anhu reported that the Messenger of Allah,  Sallalahu aleihi wa  said,

"When a person dies, all action is cut off for him with the exception of three things: sadaqa which continues, knowledge which benefits, or a righteous child who makes supplication for him."


Hadith 39

Ibn 'Abbas  radiyallahu anhu reported that a man said, "Messenger of Allah, my mother died without a will. Will it help her if I give sadaqa on her behalf?" "Yes," he  Sallalahu aleihi wa  replied.



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20. The Dutifulness of someone who maintains what his father loved


Hadith 40


'Abdullah ibn Dinar reported that Ibn 'Umar  radiyallahu anhu passed by a bedouin during a journey. The bedouin's father had been a friend of 'Umar's. He  radiyallahu anhu  said, "Aren't you the son of so-and-so?" The Bedouin said, "Yes, indeed."  Ibn 'Umar  radiyallahu anhu ordered that he be given a donkey which was following him. He also took off his turban and gave it to him, One of the men with him said, "Wouldn't two dirhams be enough for him?"  He  radiyallahu anhu replied, "The Prophet, Sallalahu aleihi wa  said,

'Maintain what your father loved. Do not cut it off, so that Allah puts out your light."



Hadith 41

Ibn 'Umar  radiyallahu anhu reported that the Messenger of Allah,   Sallalahu aleihi wa , said,

"The strongest form of dutifulness is when a man maintains relations with the people his father loved."


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21. Do not cut off someone with whom your father maintained ties


Hadith 42

Sa'd ibn 'Ubada az-Zurqi reported that his father said, "I was sitting in the Masjid in Madina with 'Amr ibn 'Uthman when 'Abdullah ibn Salam walked by, leaning on his nephew. 'Amr left the assembly and showed his concern for him." Then Ibn Salam returned to them and said, "Do what you like, 'Amr ibn 'Uthman," (and he said it two or three times) By the One who sent Muhammad,  Sallalahu aleihi wa , with the Truth, it is in the Book of Allah Almighty (and he said it twice), 'Do not cut off those your father has joined so that that extinguishes your light.'"



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22. Love is inherited


Hadith 43

Abu Bakr ibn Hazm reported that one of the Companions of the Prophet, Sallalahu aleihi wa , said, "It is enough that I tell you that the Messenger of Allah,  Sallalahu aleihi wa said, 'Love is inherited.'"



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23. A man should not call his father by his name nor sit down before him nor walk in front of him



Hadith 44

Abu Hurayra radiyallahu anhu saw two men and said to one of them, "Who is this man in relation to you?" He is my father," he replied. He radiyallahu anhu said, "Do not call him by his own name nor walk in front of him nor sit down before him."



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24. Can a man call his father by his kunya?




Hadith 45


Shahr ibn Hawshab said, "We went out with Ibn 'Umar radiyallahu anhu and Salim said to him, 'Peace, Abu 'Abdu'r-Rahman.'"



Hadith 46

'Abdullah ibn Dinar said reported that Ibn 'Umar radiyallahu anhu said, "But Abu Hafs 'Umar decided..."






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