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| Subject: When you marry believing women (Surah Al-Ahzab 33: 49) Sat Mar 04, 2017 4:35 pm | |
| When you marry believing women
(Surah Al-Ahzab 33: 49) Gift and no (Iddah) for Women Who are divorced before Consummation of the Marriage This Ayah contains many rulings, including the use of the word Nikah for the marriage contract alone. There is no other Ayah in the Qur'an that is clearer than this on this point. It also indicates that it is permissible to divorce a woman before consummating the marriage with her. believing women this refers to what is usually the case, although there is no difference between a believing (Muslim) woman and a woman of the People of the Book in this regard, according to scholarly consensus. Ibn `Abbas, (Radhi Allahu Anhuma), Sa`id bin Al-Musayyib, Al-Hasan Al-Basri, `Ali bin Al-Husayn Zayn-ul-`Abidin and a group of the Salaf took this Ayah as evidence that divorce cannot occur unless it has been preceded by marriage, because Allah says, When you marry believing women, and then divorce them, the marriage contract here is followed by divorce, which indicates that the divorce cannot be valid if it comes first. Ibn Abi Hatim recorded that Ibn `Abbas, (Radhi Allahu Anhuma), said, "If someone were to say, `every woman I marry will ipso facto be divorced,' this does not mean anything, because Allah says: O you who believe! When you marry believing women, and then divorce them.....'' It was also reported that Ibn `Abbas, (Radhi Allahu Anhuma), said: "Allah said, When you marry believing women, and then divorce them. Do you not see that divorce comes after marriage'' A Hadith to the same effect was recorded from `Amr bin Shu`ayb from his father from his grandfather, who said: "The Messenger of Allah (Sallallahu Alayhi wa Sallam) said: There is no divorce for the son of Adam with regard to that which he does not possess. This was recorded by Ahmad, Abu Dawud, At-Tirmidhi and Ibn Majah. At-Tirmidhi said, "This is a Hasan Hadith, and it is the best thing that has been narrated on this matter.'' It was also recorded by Ibn Majah from `Ali and Al-Miswar bin Makhramah, (Radhi Allahu Anhuma), that the Messenger of Allah (Sallallahu Alayhi wa Sallam) said: There is no divorce before marriage. no `Iddah have you to count in respect of them. This is a command on which the scholars are agreed, that if a woman is divorced before the marriage is consummated, she does not have to observe the `Iddah (prescribed period for divorce) and she may go and get married immediately to whomever she wishes. The only exception in this regard is a woman whose husband died, in which case she has to observe an `Iddah of four months and ten days even if the marriage was not consummated. This is also according to the consensus of the scholars. So, give them a present, and set them free in a handsome manner. The present here refers to something more general than half of the named dowry or a special gift that has not been named. Allah says: And if you divorce them before you have touched (had a sexual relation with) them, and you have fixed unto them their due (dowery) then pay half of that (Surah Al-Baqarah 2: 237). And Allah says: There is no sin on you, if you divorce women while yet you have not touched them, nor fixed unto them their due (dowery). But bestow on them gift, the rich according to his means, and the poor according to his means, a gift of reasonable amount is a duty on the doers of good. (Surah Al-Baqarah 2: 236) In Sahih Al-Bukhari, it was recorded that Sahl bin Sa`d and Abu Usayd, (Radhi Allahu Anhuma) said, "The Messenger of Allah (Sallallahu Alayhi wa Sallam) married Umaymah bint Sharahil, and when she entered upon him he reached out his hand towards her, and it was as if she did not like that, so he told Abu Usayd to give her two garments.'' `Ali bin Abi Talhah reported that Ibn `Abbas (Radhi Allahu Anhuma), said "If the dowry had been named, she would not be entitled to more than half, but if the dowry is not been named, he should give her a gift according to his means, and this is the "handsome manner.'' Source: Tafsir ibn Kathir (Abridged) | |
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